Tech bros who think digital is forever and that uploading your consciousness to a computer is immortality crack me up. Like bro, you’d be “immortal” on the computer for like a year until your own company sends out some software update that makes you incompatible and whoops, there goes TechBro.soul into the great Recycling Bin in the sky
I reblogged this last month, tagged it, and said “might as well see if it works.” I used this video as a reference to find all the forms that i needed (which is A LOT, especially if you’re a dependent) and sent them through the mail, not really allowing myself to hope.
dude.
$2,714 of medical debt from my top surgery - gone. im shaking this was such a weight on me for 2 years and it fucking worked. what the fuck.
re-reblogging and thinking about when i have another collection agency calling that i can just do this
Yo this is such good info to have
Cheers Americans, have fun with this one
Being recently disabled this is going to relieve a FUCK TON of weight holy SHIT
can someone explain the black dog to me for my pea sized brain
six weeks after, she’s barely holding it together, and she did the rebound pill and everything. meanwhile, she sees him go to a bar, and she’s hit with the realization that he might be able to do it. he might be able to move on. and that realization is terrifying, upsetting, and depressing. how could he find anyone else? and if he could, who was he with her? when he was telling her that he could be the one for her? how could they go from being so intimate that they shower with each other, to being so distant she wonders if making her fall so deeply in love was a hazing?
and the fuck of it all is she doesn’t want him to be able to move on. because that would legitimize the idea that there could be something better than them. but she knows that they both have to. and she’s finally hitting this realization after rebounding hard, and understanding that nothing can manufacture intimacy like that.
I think Matty Healy is awful but I’m still proud of Taylor putting “but daddy I love him” on the record.
There are songs on the album about her realising he love bombed her and manipulated her. Realising she fell for all of it, she was never going to fix him, and he was never going to be her saviour. She is scathing towards him, but also towards herself for falling for it. She could have left it at that and maybe copped less criticism. Instead she acknowledges the backlash and the defiance she felt in that moment.
It makes me feel the same way her putting Ours on Speak Now does. Grateful that she is open to sharing her stories even when the muse isn’t deserving of the words she wrote, even when releasing it fans the fires of the “I told you so” crowd.
And much like Ours is not a defence of Mayer, BDILH is not an acquittal of Healy. The phrasing she uses is not “he’s a good man they just don’t know him like I do”, it’s “I’m not coming to my senses” “I’d rather burn my whole life down”. The message of the song is not her trying to convince you he’s a good person (he’s not), it’s about a woman stumbling through a crisis and her desperate need to be able to make her own decisions, and that includes her own mistakes - which she seems to be acknowledging Matty was.
This is about Jessica, isn’t it? You think that’s your dirty little secret that you killed her somehow? Sam, this has got to stop, man. I mean, the nightmares and calling her name out in the middle of the night—it’s gonna kill you.
help i’m in london w my dad and he keeps pointing at buildings and saying ‘there used to be a coffee shop here’ but by ‘used to be’ he means. in the seventeenth century
we went past a pub and he was like ‘when this was a coffee shop (in the seventeenth century) isaac newton dissected a dolphin in the back room one time’ like ok. we are about to miss the train
